Do you feel very stereotyped in your life, you don't have to revive him? Keep in mind that there are other sexes in the world that make life more enjoyable and palatable. The question of how to take a man is countless answers that depend on many circumstances. It depends on your and its nature, on what you love and overall on what you are. Don't worry about anything. If you are worried that you are not attractive enough to notice you, do not think about it. There is something beautiful and graceful on every woman, and surely someone who appreciates it.
Coincidence or plan?
If the acquaintance with your upcoming will be accidental or planned, it depends a bit and you. Either you will believe in fate and wait for what will happen, or you can look at someone and go hunting.